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written by Sam Greenspan

A woman with sunglasses making her look like a cool person.

A scientific study found the elements of a cool person. So, time to absorb these into our personalities.

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It’s always entertaining to see academia try to break down concepts like coolness into something quantitative. And that’s exactly what a team of psychologists from New York, British Columbia, and the Netherlands tried to do. They recently published a study where they tried to determine the exact factors that go into being perceived as cool.

The study of the empirical investigation of coolness flew somewhat on the radar — it broke as people were leaving work on July 3rd and even then it only broke on MSNBC so, ya know.

I spotted it… and noticed they found exactly 11 major qualities that constitute coolness. I took that as a sign I was supposed to write about it. And no, it’s not about the beers that people drink that make them cool.

11 attributes that will make you a cool person

So here are the 11 qualities that make you cool, according to science. I’ve put them in order from least to most important based on the study results.

11 | Hedonistic (fun, partying)

It barely made the list, and that’s kind of surprising. I thought we all learned from Spuds Mackenzie that there’s nothing cooler than being the life of the party.

A DJ is probably the coolest person in a bar, as he can make the crowd go wild during a party.

10 | Emotionally controlled (aloof, calm)

This is one of the most “classic cool” qualities… and it only came in 10th. I guess we don’t revere the stone-cold, emotionally-distant type as much as we used to.

Granted, “emotionally unstable” didn’t make the top 11, so I guess we think it’s cooler to be around someone who says things like “Mellow out, man” than someone who says things like “Ahhh! Our Internet just went down!” then jumps through the window.

9 | Confident (self-assured)

I fully understand why confidence — which intuitively would seem like a top component of coolness — only finished ninth.

In post-Barney America, every kid’s self-esteem is so high that having self-confidence makes you a follower, not a leader. Cowering in the corner, questioning why people keep looking at you with their eyes, is the only way to be a rebel in this era.

But confidence is still a pretty cool quality to have. It takes guts to speak up for yourself, to take risks, and to put yourself out there. Plus, when you exude confidence, people are naturally drawn to you. S

8 | Humorous (funny, hilarious)

This feels like just about the right spot. Being the funny one *can* make you a cool person, but doesn’t guarantee coolness. The only things that guarantee coolness are being an extraordinarily attractive woman, being a professional-level athletic guy, or being a 16-year-old with a can’t-fail fake ID.

Two women having fun with a megaphone.

7 | Prosocial (caring, honest)

This feels a little idealistic to me. It reminds me of every survey you see about “what physical quality do you like most in a person to date” and, like, six percent of people respond, “I don’t care about what’s on the outside, it’s the inside that counts.”

Of course it does, Princess Fiona. And Sugar Ray was successful because of Mark McGrath’s singing talent.

6 | Unconventional (individualistic, unique)

There’s a fine line between being a unique individual and being the guy from American Beauty videotaping the plastic bag. Also, the first thing that popped into my mind for this one was a Homer (Simpson, not Greek) quote: “Lisa, I can’t imagine anyone being more likable than you. But apparently this new girl is. So my advice would be to start copying her in every way.”

While being unconventional can be cool, just because something is different doesn’t necessarily make it good. I mean, have you ever tried pineapple on pizza? It’s certainly unconventional, but it’s definitely not cool.

So, if you’re going to be unique and individualistic, just make sure it’s not at the expense of good taste (both literally and figuratively).

5 | Attractive (handsome, hot)

I just wanna fly. Put your arms around me baby, put your arms around me baby. All around the world statues crumble for me, who knows how long I’ve loved ya?

4 | Desirable (as friend and/or sexually)

This struck me as surprising, and also a bit of a chicken-egg scenario. Except instead of chickens and eggs, it’s desirability and coolness.

I mean, what came first, the desirability or the coolness? Like, do people want to be friends/have sex with you because you’re a cool person… or does having a bunch of people trying to befriend/befoul you make you cool?

It’s a mystery that may never be solved. But being desirable is always a plus, whether you’re cool or not.

Four women friends gathered together with drinks in their hands to chat and have fun.

3 | Trendy (current, hip)

I don’t think this makes my personal list of qualities that go into being cool. You know what’s trendy? Wearing glasses without lenses, bright-colored pants and lying talking about how you were a Louis C.K. fan more than three years ago.

But worst of all… people using the word “hashtag” in sentences. Unless you’re literally the guy who puts a price on the corned beef breakfast items at a deli, that’s blatantly unacceptable.

2 | Personal competence (smart, talented)

See, kids — taking all AP classes may not seem cool in the moment but eventually people will recognize your intelligence is cool! Especially when, decades later, you impress your dates by bringing up the themes of urban blight in Anna Karenina or remembering how to calculate the volume of a sphere.

1 | Friendly (social, popular)

In fact, being friendly and social is a great way to make friends and connections. And it’s way more enjoyable to be around people who are kind and approachable than those who are cold and aloof. So, if you want to be cool, just remember to smile, say hi, and maybe even throw in a compliment or two.

Got that? The best way to become a cool person is to be nice to people. So take that, kids who were mean to us in middle school. Turns out science says you WEREN’T the cool ones.